Meet Ra Bey. She is a master-teacher and OG healer. She uses holistic modalities to heal people so that they can achieve greatness. She is an expert and helping women breakthrough fertility and money blockages.
RootMama: Miss Ra Bey could you tell us more about you?
I am Ra Bey, and I practice a form of healing called Trill Alchemy. Trill Alchemy is a unique blend of energy healing and hypnosis that is designed to get to the root cause of issues quickly and offer an immediate and effective solutions. Our tagline is “trill transformation for real people.”
I'm from Texas. Anybody who knows southern music, knows the word trill is a big part of our vernacular down here. When someone gives you the designation of trill, it’s like the OG stamp of approval. And, that is a stamp of approval that I give my work.
RootMama: Many women contact me who want to conceive, but are struggling to to get pregnant. Some of them are not motivated to take the next step with their wellness. Could you give us a little insight the blockages that are keeping them from taking the next step?
Ra Bey: I work with women with fertility issues. What we have to understand first that fertility issues are a sacral chakra issue. The sacral chakra is the energy center that is about partnership, and creativity. But even more so, it's about sense of deserving and self-worth.
The sacral chakra is the center of worthiness. What you find is that people who have problems with conception usually have blockages in this area. If they aren't willing to get the help they need, then I have to look at their particular limitations around self-worth.
Oftentimes you see people spend money on things that are less deserving and refuse to put their money towards healing themselves. I encourage women with those struggles to really look at how much do they really value themselves, and how much do they really value their needs.
If a woman can’t honor her needs or find value in her own needs, it tells me that she has significant blockages in the sacral chakra - her creative center. When a woman denies herself of her own needs, it sends a message to the Universe that “I don't deserve to create” and “do not send me a baby.”
To address this blockage with women, I have a technique with regression and hypnosis. We go back, and we regress into childhood. Issues of self-worth starts with the father. While the mother relationship is known for shaping identity, self-worth stems from the father and his presence in a child’s life.
RootMama: What if a woman is unaware that she has an issue with self-worth?
Ra Bey: Women can have a superficial sense of self-worth in which they focus on everything on the outside. Superficial self-worth is when she takes care of herself on the outside, but neglects her true needs. In a case like that, I would explore her childhood growing up. We would explore if her needs considered valuable. Was she allowed to express her needs? Was she allowed to be vulnerable because this is where your sense of worth comes from.
Self-worth comes from the feeling that your needs to have a place in this world.
Self-worth is feeling that your needs will be met when you express them. Many women are in relationships where they are not able to practice this dynamic.
I myself was in a relationship like that. I took care of myself so everything on the outside looked great. I expected someone else to automatically know what I needed, but I had to look in the mirror and say “you're not even in tune with what you need.” How could I expect to have my needs met.
Self-worth is related to being vulnerable. Here are a few questions to help gauge self-worth.
RootMama: What is the first step with being more vulnerable in a relationship?
Ra Bey: The first step is to address the internal dialogue. The quality of any relationship is a mirror of an internal conversation.
If the internal dialogue is mostly negative, I would encourage a woman to explore any childhood issues. Specifically, an experiences with deep hurt or trauma. In cases of trauma, how were her needs met? It’s important to do a recollection of events, and then looking inwards.
It’s important that person A doesn’t point the finger the person B in the relationship. Instead it is important that person A understand that person B is just an actor a collective drama. Person A and person B can use information that is being mirrored back to gain introspect about each other.
RootMama: Do you have any advice for women who think the process of the natural fertility is should be instantaneous and effortless?
Ra Bey: We live in a society that is conditioned to fight symptoms with a pill, shot or surgery. We live in a society that ignores the root cause of a problem. This ignorance and neglect of the root problem causes issue to surface over and over again. The pill, shot or surgery may provide temporary relief, but the problem will continue to manifest until it is address from the inside out.
The problem must be addressed from a Spiritual and holistic perspective.
The inability to manifest desires is considered a disease. The process of manifestation, whether manifesting wealth or a baby, is the exact same.
In terms of the law of attraction, once a thought is sent out to the Universe, that energy returns to the sender. However, what many fail to realize is that once the energy returns, it has to penetrate the being on seven energy levels before it can manifest into a physical entity. The energy has to penetrate seven layers to become a baby, a new job, more money, a healthy relationship or whatever the sender desires to create.
By the time infertility is manifesting as a physical symptom, the woman who is desiring to become pregnant has already experienced a blockage on a Spiritual, mental and emotional level. Modern medicine does not address the Spiritual realm.
Addressing the blockage on a subconscious mind level is key. Many women don't understand that during the teenage years when many are put on birth control, they had a mindset that pregnancy was bad, negative and something to be avoided. During this time, conception was considered a “pregnancy scare.”
The subconscious mind is conditioned to avoid pain. Its only job is to keep you alive, and it does that by avoiding pain. If the subconscious mind is running a program that having a child equals trauma, the mind will do everything in its power to avoid pregnancy.
Even if the desire on the surface level changes, that “avoid a baby” program is still running in the background. This subconscious energy has to be literally deprogrammed and repurposed.
Some may have success with modern medical interventions to address infertility. But, it’s not a long-term solution. It’s much cheaper to address it holistically in all honesty.
RootMama: Right, in vitro (IVF) costs $10,000 - $20,000+ per try and there is no guarantee.
Ra Bey: Exactly. Holistic practitioners offer tremendous value even though our prices are much more accessible.
RootMama: What is happening when a woman’s spending is not in alignment with she says she wants? What is going on when she is not investing in activities, people, places and things that will bring them closer to conceiving a child? Where is the disconnect? As it relates to money science, why is she not taking the next step on the fertility journey?
Ra Bey: The sacral chakra is the money center. It’s the center of creativity. In an ideal world, money comes from what a woman creates.
In order for the sacral center to be healthy, there has to be an element of flow. Money is currency. Money is a current. Creative energy is a current. One of the issues that I find is that women either come with issues of infertility or they have issues around their money. Both problems are related to the same blockage.
The blockage is related to control. The need to control can be a huge blockage if it dwells in the sacral chakra. The self-worth dynamic and the need to control can be linked to a woman having something taken away from her in the past. Many women have experienced situations where things have been taken from them outside of their control. Many women have experienced sexual trauma or verbal abuse where someone was influencing or controlling them in a certain way.
Women who have been violated in this way tend to lock up the energy in this sacral area as a means to gain control back. However, when she locks that creative energy up, she is locking up her flow of emotion. She’s locking up her flow of creativity, which in turn locks up her flow of money.
I’d like to share my personal story. When I first embarked on this entrepreneurial journey, I had this intense pull telling me to free myself sexually. So here I am an entrepreneur who has just left her job. I'm supposed to be thinking about making money, yet the only thing that's coming up in my mind is the need for sexual liberation.
It was to that point where I was almost in tears for a year. There was this sensual Goddess that was begging me to let her loose. I knew that it was connected to my money flow. Luckily, I have a loving partner who also practices metaphysics. He recognized my needs, and we literally had sessions with the intense focus on liberating her. During these sessions, nothing was off limits. I was able to completely surrender to my sexuality. I was able to completely surrender to my emotions and to my sexual needs.
Too many women have been taught that our sexual needs should be repressed. This repression causes fibroids, unexpressed creativity, irregular periods, literally having no flow, or an irregular flow.
I had a client experiencing irregular periods for three years. The first thing I asked her was
“how are you at expressing your emotions.” She immediately burst out in tears. We did the work, and uncovered that she had significant blockages in her sacral chakra. After just one session her periods have been normal for the past six months.
She’s finding a new sense of freedom in her relationship. Now I don't whether that means she’s going to stay with this man or not, but she is finding the power to express herself and her needs in that relationship. She was used to being dominated and controlled.
The energies that are used to control in our society are sex and money. On a large scale, women use sex to control men, and men use money to control women.
All of these energies are sacral chakra energies. If a woman can be in alignment and feel comfortable being vulnerable, she could allow this energy to flow. It would be unnecessary to use these secondary mechanisms to control. I tell people all the time, if you want more money you need to have more sex all the time.
Sexual energy is the most creative force on the planet. When you have sex you will either create a physical entity - being a baby - or an energetic and spiritual one. It the goal is not to create a physical one, the goal is to create an energetic one that can be programmed to bring more money or to bring more success in business. When the energy can flow freely, it will be returned back to freely. That is the energetic place of orgasm.
RootMama: What do else do you want women to understand about fertility and holistic resources at their fingertips to be catalyst for positive change in their lives?
Ra Bey: I would say to women, don't settle for these infertility as your norm. Fertility challenges are indicators that something is off energetically at a core level. I would encourage women to seek a holistic professional. Find someone that they feel comfortable with that can help them identify fertility blockages and remove them.
Infertility is not the norm. Women have spent too much time and given too much power to the modern medical industry as it relates to our fertility. Our ability to create belongs to us. I want women to take that power back. The first step to reclaiming our fertility power is to recognize that when something is wrong or when there is illness, she must recognize it and take ownership of it on a deeper level.
Ra Bey is the creator of Trill Alchemy with the mission to heal the real. She achieves that with her signature human coding methodology to deliver rapid and lasting transformation.